Pentecost 19, Proper 23, Yr. B

October 11, 2009

Job 23.1-9, 16-17; Ps. 22. 1-15; Hebrews4.12-16; Mark 10.17-31

 

Our readings today from Job and the Psalms are full of what can only be described as despair.

 

God has made my heart faint; the Almighty has terrified me; if only I could vanish in darkness, and thick darkness would cover my face!

 

Job is not having a good day.

 

And the Psalm is one we read on Palm Sunday and Good Friday.

 

My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? and are so far from my cry and the words of my distress.

 

And yet in the lesson from Hebrews we hear this:

 

Let us therefore approach the throne of grace with boldness, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

 

When we are struggling, how do we get from feeling forsaken and wanting to pull the covers up over our head to escape God or to hide from God…

 

To a place of actually coming to God in boldness for the mercy and grace that we so desperately need?

 

Can’t relate to that question?

 

How about this one then.

 

How do we get from feeling like we can overcome our challenges in life by trying hard and making good choices…

 

To that same place that God wants us to be…coming to God in boldness for the mercy and grace that we so desperately need?

 

It may seem like those are two very different starting points.

 

One is that place of feeling overwhelmed by life, like we’re just limping along making it day by day.

 

And the other is that place of self-determination, that if we just keep working at it things have to get better.

 

I think that those two places, those two ways of feeling are similar, though.

 

What do they have in common?

 

The both sit on a foundation of the lure of  focusing on me.

 

Whether we act like we believe that God is somehow out to get us and make our life miserable…

 

Or we’re acting like God is just waiting for us to get it together and problem solve our life…

 

The focus in both ways of being is on us…on me.

 

Our eyes are turned on ourselves.

 

How do I feel, what can I do, why is this happening to me?

 

Jesus came and proclaimed a very different message about life and about what God might be wanting from us.

 

A very counter cultural message…then and now.

 

Self –sufficiency is so tempting.

 

For me anyway, and I assume for a lot of you.

 

I grew up in a family where I was the youngest of 3 girls.

 

Our family had some chaos in it…alcohol, verbal and physical abuse.

 

I grew up with a keen eye to how to fly under the radar.

 

I knew that I was one to trust in.

 

I grew up unchurched and with a strong and reinforced sense of my own self-reliance and self-sufficiency.

 

I had a major conversion experience in my late teens and became a Jesus person, a Christian.

 

I got married, had two kids, and was a church going machine.

 

At least 3 times a week…twice on Sundays, Wednesday nights and other assorted prayer meetings or Bible studies.

 

For that period of time I would have said that I was putting my trust in Jesus and not myself.

 

But by the time I was 23 I was widowed and a single mom.

 

It was the perfect moment in time for me to conclude that self-sufficiency was going to be a better way to go.

 

To me, God had let me down by not protecting me from tragedy when I was so faithful.

 

Love God and rely on yourself would have been a good summary of my religious worldview at the time.

 

Does that seem about right to some of you… Love God and rely on yourself?

 

I think that most of us want to have a sense of self-sufficiency.

 

It feels safer, more in control.

 

Over the last 32 years a lot has happened, a lot has changed.

 

But most of all I would say that my heart and mind and spirit have been worked on and worked on in letting go of the fantasy of self-sufficiency.

 

God has been relentless, has chased me every step of the way.

 

The message about trusting in God’s love is in this story from Mark’s gospel that we heard today.

 

And that message is far from encouraging us to feel like we have the reins of life in our hands.

 

Jesus has met up with a rich man.

 

Maybe he was from Cameron Park or El Dorado Hills.

 

I know most of you don’t think of yourselves as rich, but go with me here.

 

This man is both rich and a faithful follower of God and God’s commandments.

 

He is a good person who does the right thing and loves God.

 

But he’s heard about this Jesus and about some of the followers of Jesus and he’s intrigued.

 

He thinks there may be something to what this guy is saying and doing.

 

He’s heard about a whole list of signs and miracles and he’s heard about his teachings, which seem really solid to him.

 

So the rich man asks Jesus what he must do to inherit eternal life.

 

Being rich he’s familiar with the idea of getting his ducks in a row in order to  inherit something of value.

 

And being religious he’s thinking that the check list to insure eternal life would be a good thing to get nailed down.

 

Jesus looks at this man and loves him.

 

Do you think that the man could feel that love in Jesus’ eyes in that moment?

 

Jesus tells him that he must sell his possessions, give the proceeds to the poor, and then to grab a backpack and follow him.

 

This is the only story in Mark where someone turns Jesus down when he calls them to follow him.

 

But this man was shocked that Jesus would ask that of him and he went home to his money and his possessions.

 

He turned Jesus down.

 

That’s when Jesus takes the opportunity to try to explain to us what just happened.

 

This man, this rich young man, wanted to know how he could make good with God without being different, without changing.

 

He wanted to keep his money and get the new check list for religious compliance leading to eternal life…

 

So that he could be in control of his life and his destiny.

 

Jesus is having no part of that.

 

Our human attempts to be right with God have failed over the decades and millennia.

 

And that is what Jesus tells the disciples and us.

 

How hard it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of God.

 

The disciples were perplexed and slack jawed at that one.

 

Being wealthy was, is a sign of God’s blessing and favor, right?

 

Figuring out and following the right set of rules is the way to please God and make ourselves good with God, right?

 

Jesus says no.

 

This young man and the disciples did not understand the power and influence riches and possessions have over us.

 

I don’t know if Jesus is saying that each and every one of us must sell all we have and give the proceeds to the poor in order to begin following him.

 

I do know that Jesus is saying that money and things pose very real challenges to us as human creatures.

 

Money and things represent control and safety and self-sufficiency.

Jesus is saying that the challenges are so great to us that they make getting into the Kingdom of God as hard as trying to cram a camel through the eye of a sewing needle. 

 

Literally…

 

The disciples ask the obvious question…

 

Well if a rich, blessed, religiously faithful guy can’t really expect to make it in…who can?

 

And Jesus gives the Jesus answer…

 

For God all things are possible.

 

While it obviously matters how we live our lives…

 

Still we cannot be good enough, follow enough rules, have enough worldly wealth and power and influence…

 

We cannot be self-sufficient enough to be right with God.

 

There is a part of me that still just hates that…but it is the truth.

 

All that we have, all that we are is by God’s grace and mercy.

 

We can approach the throne of grace with boldness, not because of us, but because of what Jesus has done for each of us.

 

We can trust that God has made a way for every one of us to be with God, to follow Jesus.

 

Like the rich young man, the way that God has made for us asks us to let go of thinking that we are in control, that we are self-sufficient…

 

Jesus is asking us to believe and trust that that our wealth can tempt us away from giving our whole selves up to following Jesus.

 

I keep talking about riches and wealth and I know you are probably sick to death of hearing Kent and I go on and on about the completely amazing abundance of all of our lives.

The truth is no matter how stressed or anxious or worried you are about your monthly bills or about how you’re going to afford your retirement…

 

We are still more well fed and more comfortable and more physically safe than most people on the planet right now or throughout history.

 

Listen to what Jesus is saying because its crazy and we don’t really want to hear it.

 

Jesus is saying that being comfortable in this life makes it that much harder for us to really believe that all we have belongs to God and not to us.

 

Being comfortable makes it hard for us to really believe that God is all we need.

 

This is a generous congregation, no doubt.

 

Over $5000 came in last week for the Kellerman’s ministry to the pygmies.

 

Faith Church has given money and sleeping bags and socks and knitted hats and blankets to the tune of over $70K in the last year.

 

Those who support the operating budget and the building/mortgage budgets here at Faith are generous.

 

But it’s that time of year again when we’ll be asking you for pledges to this local church to keep the building open, the salaries paid, the programs going, and the outreach ministries funded.

 

And that may be more annoying than usual this year.

 

Money may be tight or money may feel like it’s tight.

 

And we’re still going to ask you anyway to pray and think about what God will be calling you to give of the money and wealth that God has given you.

 

Out of gratitude and out of wonder and out of your thanks for God’s great patience and mercy.

 

We’re asking you to give not because you can but because you will.

 

Jesus asked the rich young man to give all his wealth, all that made him feel safe and in control.

 

And the rich young man said, I won’t.

 

We have so many reasons why we believe that we can’t.

 

Jesus is offering us a different way to live.

 

Jesus offered his very life in order to offer us a different way to live.

 

In gratitude and in boldness we approach the throne of grace and simply say…

 

I will.

 

All that I am and all that I have…I will.